Our friend Anna Milton Lewis has completed an 89 mile walk in memory of her dad.
Douglas, who spent 18 months living with us, loved the countryside of Staffordshire and Derbyshire. He spent many happy years in the area, exploring with his wife, Mary.
Douglas passed away at the age of 89 in February of this year.
Anna planned the walk to raise £890 for The Alzheimer’s Society and to revisit the local spots her dad loved so much.
“As a young couple, Dad and Mum used to cycle all over,” remembered Anna. “He found this area very beautiful and has such lovely memories of particularly Dimmingsdale and Alton where he lived for a while.
“I wanted this walk to connect the places in which he lived, loved, laughed and ultimately died. I followed memories and stories told before vascular dementia took its toll.”
Anna’s first stop was at Barrowhill Hall, 15 miles into her walk. It was wonderful to see her and offer her a well-earned rest before she set off again.
“He loved the view from the home,” said Anna. “He would sit with his binoculars and watch the birds, animals and admire the countryside.”
Anna’s route then took her through Alton, Oakamoor, Waterhouses, Bakewell, Chatsworth, Matlock and Carsington.
She completed her walk at the top of Thorpe Cloud with her mother and members of her family down below at Dovedale.
“I then decided to walk home from Dovedale as a personal challenge for myself,” said Anna. “This was very very hard going (23miles!) but I walked in my kitchen door 120 miles after I had left it!”
She smashed her fundraising target by raising almost £2,500.
“My father loved being out in the countryside. My hope is the money I raise will help people like him to continue to enjoy the benefits of the wonderful outdoors, where lost memories don’t matter because the distractions of the ‘here and now’ are just too great.”
Students from Ryecroft C.E. Middle School are stimulating memories and bringing laughter to residents thanks to a reading scheme that’s brought the two together.
Every Friday a group of year 7 and 8 pupils spend an hour with residents, reading to them and chatting, as well as playing games and doing crafts.
Their reading helps residents to relax, recall memories that bring them comfort and they enjoy the positive energy the young people bring.
“Our residents don’t always remember they’ve seen particular student,” said activities manager, Karen O’Moore, “but they always enjoy the sound of their voices and the stories they read.
“We can see how they relax with them and there’s often a lot of laughter. Being with the children helps them to think of younger family members or even their own childhoods.
“In those days, it was an exciting book and a torch under the bedclothes rather than a smart phone!”
The visits are something particularly enjoyed by Bill Smith, 92. He’s formed a special relationship with 11 year old Jack Moore, whose mum, Alison, is a senior carer at the home.
“Bill’s really nice, he’s really funny and we got on straight away,” said Jack. “I’ll be reading to him and suddenly he’ll remember something. We’ll talk about that for a bit, then carry on.
“I was a bit shy to start with as I wasn’t sure what to expect. I don’t really know anyone who has dementia, but Bill’s so easy to be with – he’s like a grandad.”
“I wish he came every day,” said Bill. “I love seeing all the children but he’s especially good company.”
The visits are part of the school’s ‘Options’ scheme – a lesson each week that pupils spend following an interest or learning a new skill.
“We weren’t sure how many children would take up the option of visiting a care home but there’s been great enthusiasm from the students,” said headteacher, Rachael Baramuszczak.
“We felt this was an important option for them. The school is just a mile away from Barrowhill Hall so it is a way for our pupils to contribute something very positive to their community. It gives them an immense amount of pride and satisfaction.”
The pupils largely spend their time in the main lounge but will take books up to residents who find it difficult to leave their rooms.
12 year old Zara Jackson is another of the students who chose to visit Barrowhill Hall.
“I wanted to come here to help me build my confidence,” she said. “I love talking to the residents and they really listen to me when I read to them.
“And it’s great to know that I’m doing something that makes them happy.”
A huge ‘congratulations!’ and a well-earned rest are due for our team of staff who completed a five mile climb up Mount Snowdon to raise money for families living with dementia.
The four staff made the near 250 mile round trip to north Wales on Saturday 15th September. They took two and a half hours to reach the 1,000m peak.
September is World Alzheimer’s Month and the staff organised their ‘Memory Walk’ in aid of the Alzheimer’s Society. Barrowhill Hall is home to 74 residents, many of whom are living with dementia.
Our activity co-ordinators Val Barnes and Becky Dalton, and carers Amy Farrell and Becky Buckley, took part in the climb
“It was a fantastic if exhausting day,” said Val. “We weren’t sure if we’d be able to do it but we were thrilled to get to the top!
“We’re so passionate about the work that we do and we wanted to show that by completing this challenge.”
The team also comprised Ann Parker and Michele Millward, teachers from Abbotsholme School in Rocester. Children from the school visit us every Monday to spend time playing and chatting with residents.
“Our little ones have gained a great deal of understanding about dementia over the last few months, and so have we,” said Ann. “We were very keen to support Barrowhill’s fundraising and the support they show for families living with dementia – even when they’re not at work!
“The climb was amazing and we’re so glad we were part of it.”
He chatted to visitors and answered their gardening questions as well as admiring and photographing the spectacular views.
National Care Home Open Day is an annual event that gives people the chance to visit their local care home.
This year’s theme was ‘linking communities’ and we certainly did that! We welcomed Kinglsey Bird and Falconry Centre, Bamford Engine and Machinery Group, St Michael’s Church in Rocester, Tesco’s in Uttoxeter and the 22nd Signal Regiment from MOD Stafford.
Mr Flowerdew well-understands the needs of people with dementia. His mother Pam lived with the condition for several years.
“She loved to sit in the garden,” he said. “She wasn’t able to communicate very much in the later stages but she always seemed happier being able to see flowers around her.
The scent of lavender
“Scent was very stimulating for her. The smell of bacon cooking brought out a single memory of “Dad’s shop” when she hadn’t spoken for close to a year so I’m planning to use lots of scented plants at Barrowhill Hall.
“Beds of old fashioned lavender will give a wonderful smell and colour. It’s a safer plant than roses whose thorns can be a danger.
“I’ll also be thinking about seating and building in raised beds so residents can do planting without having to bend down.
Our care quality manager, Geoff Aris, said; “We would like to thank Mr Flowerdew, and all of those community groups and volunteers who made the Day such a success.
“It’s very important to us to make sure Barrowhill Hall, and all of our residents, are still very much part of their community.
“And with a beautiful, tailored garden design to look forward to we hope to welcome more local people to enjoy our home.”
As well as meeting Bob you can enjoy a falconry display, a miniature steam railway, live music, a range of stalls, refreshments and the chance to win a hamper courtesy of Tesco in Uttoxeter!
Visit the event on our Facebook page and tell us you’re ‘going’ and we’ll enter you into the draw to win a case of champagne!
Gardening for dementia
Bob will also be advising us on how to re-design part of our garden to make it more dementia-friendly. Being outdoors has a positive impact on wellbeing and we want to make sure our residents can access it safely. Plus, it has to meet their needs and their interests.
Join us 2.00pm – 6.00pm
Care Home Open Day is when we throw open our doors so you can see that moving into a home means you’re still very much part of your community.
Our event is FREE!
You can meet our staff and ask us about our care as well as enjoying a fun day out with all the family.
Residents have had their traditionally bland walking frames ‘pimped up’ by their young friends at Abbotsholme School.
The children have been making brightly-coloured pom-poms and sparkly stars in their weekly visits to us.
The decorations have been used to brighten up the grey Zimmer frames many of the residents use. The youngsters have also been wrapping them in colourful streamers and personalising them with people’s names.
‘Pimp my Zimmer’ is a national initiative started by a care worker in Essex who realised residents often struggled to identify their own walking frame.
The scheme, which began in 2015, is also designed to improve mobility and has helped reduce falls in some homes by 60%.
“This has been fantastic fun for us and the children,” said Barrowhill Hall’s activities coordinator Val Barnes.
“The children visit us every Monday afternoon and they’ve really enjoyed bringing some colour to what is an extremely dull but hugely important piece of equipment.”
The children visit Churnet Lodge which offers residential care and care for people in the early stages of dementia.
“We are yet to see what impact the pimped up frames will have on people’s mobility,” said Val, “but we are seeing a change in people’s mood – the bright colours and the memories of the fun they had decorating them put a smile on their faces and that’s lovely to see.”
“I’m proud of my frame.”
97 year old Peggy Hughes has enjoyed the experience with six year old Rory and four year old Jensen.
“We’ve had such a lot of fun together,” she said. “Mine is covered in pink and blue pom-poms, I’ve got stickers and pink bows and stars.
“I would never choose to use something grey but walking frames don’t come in any other colours! I’m proud of it, I want to get up and move so I can show it off!”